Weddings in Nairobi range from small civil ceremonies to celebrations with hundreds of guests, and often include more than one event: a traditional ceremony, a church or civil wedding, and a reception. Planning early and budgeting carefully makes all the difference.

A wedding is only legally binding if the marriage is registered - civil, religious, customary or Hindu. Book the registrar or officiant early and give notice as required. See Getting married in Kenya.

Traditional ceremonies

Many Kenyan weddings begin with customary ceremonies between the two families - for example the negotiation and payment of dowry (such as ruracio among the Kikuyu). These are family occasions with their own customs, often held at the bride’s family home.

Venues

  • Garden venues - especially in Karen, Runda and along the outskirts; very popular for outdoor ceremonies and receptions.
  • Hotels - convenient, with catering included, in the city and Westlands.
  • Churches and places of worship for the ceremony, with a separate reception venue.
  • Destination weddings - Naivasha, Nanyuki and the coast.

Book popular venues months ahead, especially in the dry seasons. Have a tent or rain plan - weather in the long and short rains is unpredictable.

The main costs

  • Venue and catering - usually the largest cost, per guest.
  • Tents, décor and chairs.
  • Photography and video.
  • Attire - the couple, the bridal party, and often matching outfits.
  • Music - DJ, band or choir, and the sound system.
  • Cake, flowers and transport.
  • Registrar or officiant fees and a wedding planner if you use one.

Set the guest count first - it drives almost every other cost. Use the budget planner to plan.

Wedding committees

Many couples form a wedding committee of family and friends who help plan and raise contributions, meeting weekly in the months before. Contributions often come through a harambee or M-Pesa. Keep clear records of money in and out, and thank contributors.

Choosing vendors

  • See their past work and ask for references.
  • Get everything in writing - price, what is included, times and payment schedule.
  • Pay deposits to business accounts, with receipts.
  • Confirm a week before the day.

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